You were the first of my brothers and sisters to leave us. It’s been almost 3 weeks since you died and I can’t let go of the grief. I busy myself but it’s still raw and there.
You can shed tears that she is gone
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back
or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she’s gone
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back
or you can do what she’d want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
You were Daughter, Wife, Mother, Sister and Best Friend to so many. You touched so many lives. Your death leaves a void in the world.